When you reading this small note, you may come to know, what is the category that I do falling to, and you may possibly assess pros and cons of each category, and may ended up with a particular judgment. The author’s view in this regard is, the judgment on this is a subjective phenomenon.
The perceived inapproachability is one of the apparent disadvantages of being reserved. Besides, people likely to confide in quite people since they are always good listeners. Adding to that, most people tend to think that those who don’t talk are silent. In fact, they used to label them as ‘still persons’. But the author’s view on this regard is this is not true all the time. Perhaps most notably, during my tiny life experiences I have noticed that many would judge people in accordance to what they see and hear on how expressive or louder a person is. I have seen people use to say silent to define people as ease and it is seldom among people’s belief that there is loudness within though silent.
Some believe that, it’s dangerous when people are outgoing and loud, those people will usually trust anyone they meet and that can be fatal if he/she ends up mixing with the bad crowd. Opposing to this fact, a group of psychologists from two universities in the United States have found that people who classified themselves as happy were also more talkative and loud that their unhappy counterparts and the conversation had more substance. Given that, it has been empirically verified that, women really more talkative and loud than men. Finally, moving to my own experiences, I have a very good friend of mine, she is humorous when she is loud, and people tell her to be quite. But when she is quite, people ask her what is wrong…..